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Planning for your own family

Wills, trusts and powers of attorney

A plan is a short stack of papers that lets the people you choose act for you, now and later.

Most families need four things: a will, a durable power of attorney for money, a health care directive, and a list of who gets what that matches the beneficiary forms on your accounts. Some also need a revocable living trust, usually because they own a house in more than one state, have a child with special needs, or want to keep things out of the probate court.

I'll tell you which you need, and which you don't, at our first meeting. Then I write them in plain English, with a one-page summary on top.

Two people sign a printed document at a white table, one guiding with a blue pen

What a plan usually holds

  • A simple will

    Names who settles your estate, who inherits, and who raises your children if you can't.

  • A living trust, if you need one

    Holds your house and accounts while you're alive, then passes them on without probate.

  • A durable power of attorney

    Lets someone you trust pay bills, deal with the bank and file taxes if you can't.

  • A health care directive

    Says what care you want, and who speaks to the doctors when you can't.

  • Beneficiary forms, checked

    Retirement accounts and life insurance follow their own forms, not your will. We line them up.

  • A letter for your family

    Where the originals are, which accounts exist, and who to call first.

Questions about plans

Will a trust save on taxes?

For most families, no. Federal estate tax applies only to very large estates. A trust's main use is avoiding probate and managing money for someone who can't manage it yet.

Can I write my own will from a form?

You can, and some are fine. The trouble usually comes from the signing: the wrong number of witnesses, or no self-proving page, which leaves your executor hunting for witnesses years later.

How often should I update my plan?

Look at it after a birth, a death, a marriage, a divorce or a move to another state, and otherwise every five years or so. I send clients a short checklist each year.

Talk through your own plan

A twenty-minute call is enough to know what you need and roughly what it will cost.